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"Why Men
Leave Women"
Do
you know why A man suddenly leaves a relationship? When your
relationship seems to be as good and strong as ever, your
boyfriend suddenly decides to leave, leaving you shocked and
depressed. Is there something wrong with you? The reason that
your boyfriend gives you seems to be nonsense , more so because
the reason changes every time you ask him!
Now, I will tell you why men suddenly leave long time
relationships. There is one reason why a man leaves a woman and
one other reason why a woman leaves a man.
Now, obviously these reasons are very different since men and
women think differently. I am not telling you this reason just
to satisfy your curiosity but also to enable you get your ex
back and to give you a fair chance in trying, no not trying, but
actually getting your ex back. Today I am going to tell you why
a man leaves a woman.
Why Men Leave Women - The Real Reason
Men will give several reasons for their sudden departure from
your life and for not being with you anymore. But you know what!
They are not trying to confuse you by telling you so many
reasons. The truth is that men have problems in sorting out
their feelings and are usually at a loss when they try to put
their feelings into words. This has been a challenge not for
only the women whom they left but also the psychologists and
relationship experts who try to sort it all out.
The root cause is Their Need to Feel Admired. This is what the
experts (including Dr.John Gray) have concluded after testing
hundreds of different responses. Men start losing interest and
will eventually leave a happy relationship, (although not so
happy from the man's point of view) when they stop FEELING
ADMIRED!
Men want to feel admired by their girl! They want to be their
prince charming, their hero. When they stop getting all of these
feelings from the relationship, its tough for them to stay on.
This is because this becomes an attack on their self esteem and
on their manhood, which is supposed to be a woman's saviour and
protector.
Now, this reason may feel too simple, even unbelievable, but
just think about about it. See it from the man's point of view
and you will realize how true it is.
so, you see why you are not getting the real reason from your
man. How could a man say to you that he needs to be admired.
Saying "You don't Admire Me Anymore!" will seem awful and he
would cut off his tongue before he could say this sentence.
Have you noticed what happens in the common situations in
everyday life? The story is simple. John meets Jane. And when
they meet Jane likes it and she lets him know by giving him many
compliments.... but most importantly ... Jane is always smiling
and looks very Happy when John is around.
Do you get it now?
John saw how Happy Jane was when she was with him and feels
ADMIRED. He measures
how much Jane admires him, by seeing how happy Jane is when she
is with him.
So, for a man:
Happy Woman = Admiration
You know what was the reason that men gave in thousands of polls
and tests
conducted by relationship experts.
This is the reason as given by the Polls==>
" No matter what I
did....I couldn't
make her happy anymore."
This is also the number 1 reason why men cheat. Men dont cheat
because they found
a prettier but because of the reason that I mentioned above. It
is because the
other and maybe more prettier woman makes him feel admired once
again. This is
when a husband or a boyfriend has the highest chances of
cheating.
So, if you start to make him feel admired again and he will
never ever leave you.
A smiling, happy and giggly coworker that showers him with
compliments and beams
with pleasure when he walks in the room ... is an incredible
Admiration builder
and turn on for a man ... who does not feel admired at home.
This doesnt mean that you keep giggling like a school girl to
get your man back.
Not at all.
You see, what most men complain about is Nagging.Nagging is the
fastest killer of a
man feeling admired. YOu should express your feelings if you
have problems but
you should think of a better way than to Nag.
So how do you get your ex boyfriend back?
You start making him feel admired again. But this doesnt mean
that
you become a doormat
........ you need to keep your dignity too .... and get what you
want!
This is very easy to do once you learn a few skills... If you
are serious about
getting your man back and to keep him once you have got him
back.. or even if you
are in a good relationship now and want to ensure a long healthy
relationship...
Now, what I want you do is to grab this book right now...
It is called
The Magic of Making UP
and will show you exactly
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to make your man feel admired again.. and at the Sam Time...
keep your dignity
and respect and even get what you want and need from this
relationship.
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An Apology:
The Magic of Making up Is very effective.. but the
website looks a
little bit "cheesy"
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